Children with Disabilities
Children with physical, intellectual, social, communication diversities are at increased risk for sexual abuse and exploitation.
Reasons for this include:
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Limited ability to recognize and resist inappropriate touch or other sexual activity
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Social isolation and limited opportunities to express and explore their sexuality in age-appropriate ways with peers
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Increased dependence on the internet for social interaction, putting them at higher risk for online exploitation and pornography addiction
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Mismatch between physical age and social or intellectual maturity, forcing a child to navigate the challenges of puberty with the mind and social skills typical of a much younger child
This can be an overwhelming topic for parents, and it is too important to delay or ignore – there is help.
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Make sure your child is included in your school’s body safety and sexuality education program. If your child receives accommodations for education, they need to be applied here as well.
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Be vigilant in talking to other children in your family about touch and sexual boundaries, specifically including interactions with siblings who are younger or more vulnerable in any way
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Tailor body safety conversations to your child’s unique needs. For example, children with autism may need very specific and clear directions about different types of touch in different settings; children who have frequent physical contact from medical providers or personal care assistants will need conversations about privacy and touch in those circumstances
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Children and teens with behavioral and social challenges may need extra boundaries and specific guidance on how they treat others–including siblings, younger children, and peers
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Take advantage of resources which are available to help you and your child navigate puberty and grow into a lifetime of healthy sexuality
Resources for Parents of Children with Disabilities
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Voices of Change 2018: Reducing the Risk of Abuse, Neglect and Exploitation for Children with Disabilities
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Child Sexual Abuse| sexualityanddisability.org
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Puberty and Sexuality and Children with Disabilities | Navigate Life Texas
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Protecting Children with Disabilities from the Mama Bear Effect
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NSPCC | PANTS poster on body safety for young children
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Tip Sheet: Family Safety Planning for Parents of Children with Disabilities from Stop It Now! US, includes links to other useful resources
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An Exceptional Children's Guide to Touch: Teaching Social and Physical Boundaries - Book targeting children up to age 12, written to be accessible for those with developmental delays
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Preparing for (and Surviving) Puberty - Online booklet for parents of children with autism and/or learning disabilities on preparing and guiding children through puberty; includes links to more resources, from Central Sexual Health​
Resources for Parents of Children with Autism
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S.T.A.R.S. 2: Relationship Building and Sexual Awareness for Kids with Autism – Future Horizons
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The Original S.T.A.R.S. Guidebook for Older Teens and Adults – Future Horizons
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Taking Care of Myself 2: For Teenagers & Young Adults with ASD – Future Horizons
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For children with autism | NSPCC - PANTS poster on body safety for young children, designed for those both on and off the autism spectrum
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Learning about bodies and personal boundaries: autistic children - For ages 3-9, from RaisingChildren.net, Australia
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An Exceptional Children's Guide to Touch: Teaching Social and Physical Boundaries - Book targeting children up to age 12, written to be accessible for those with developmental delays
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Preparing for (and Surviving) Puberty - Online booklet for parents of children with autism and/or learning disabilities on preparing and guiding children through puberty; includes links to more resources, from Central Sexual Health, Scotland
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Helping My Autistic Child: Preventing Sexual Abuse Online - booklet from the Marie Collins Foundation